Or who want to forget about life’s worries, such as relationship issues or money troubles. Gambling can be an escape for people who’ve experienced a stressful change in life. However, when they lose, particularly big losses, the cycle of compulsive gambling can begin. Then they keep playing in the hope they’ll win again and experience the same good feelings. Someone may start gambling for fun and have some early wins. The link between gambling and happiness.How to talk to someone about their gambling.